Hi Dark Mare, I have only just watched this TED talk from this post (my first TED talk ever)! Thankyou. I found it absolutely facinating and although it has never happened to me it explains so much about this old as the hills subject that is clearly misunderstood. The thing that really struck me is how different it is for men and women. I have now watched another of her Ted talks and she has a great delivery. It very much made me understand what happened to Ross and Demelza.
I can't help but marvel at the YouTube algorithm now that I've watched this TED Talk on infidelity. The only thing in my viewing patterns that can explain why I received the notification for this talk is the Series 2 "Poldark" snippets I keep rewatching.
I think they both might have found something helpful in it. See whether you agree: